Nicole Harper
Dear Mothers,
08 May 2024
As we embark on the journey of guiding our daughters, I believe we must impart some fundamental principles to them. These principles not only shape their character but also serve as a sturdy foundation upon which they can build their lives.
First and foremost, let us encourage our daughters to make Christ the cornerstone of their lives. In a world full of evil, uncertainty, and chaos, having a solid spiritual foundation can provide them with protection, guidance, and peace.
Furthermore, let us lead by example in all aspects of our lives. Our actions speak louder than words. By demonstrating integrity, kindness, and compassion, we teach our daughters invaluable lessons about character and morality.
It is also crucial that we instill a sense of worth in our daughters upon birth. They need to grasp their inherent value and understand that they are deserving of love and respect. Let’s guide them in cultivating respect for others, while also fostering a self-respect that humbly demands dignity from those around them.
Teach and ground in them, the truth of what God says about them. They must understand that beauty transcends worldly standards and radiates from within. Let us guide them to embrace their unique qualities, celebrating their individuality as a reflection of God’s design.
"Our daughters must know that failure is not a reflection of their worth or capabilities."
Remind our daughters never to lower their standards or compromise their values for the sake of fitting in. Instead, encourage them to strive for excellence, to pursue their passions, and to never settle for anything less than they deserve.
Instill in our daughters a passion for knowledge, encouraging them to seize every opportunity for growth, both academically and personally. While only some follow the traditional path to higher education, pursuing continued learning remains paramount. The journey to becoming smarter, wiser, and better than the day before is invaluable.
In addition, let them know that extreme success and entrepreneurship are not foreign concepts, but achievable goals, that can be carved into their paths, and fearlessly pursued. Finding one’s purpose in life is a journey that requires introspection, exploration, and perseverance, aligning their aspirations with the divine purpose set before them.
Our daughters must know that failure is not a reflection of their worth or capabilities. Instead, it is an opportunity for growth, resilience, and learning. As women who often carry the weight of the world on our shoulders, let us show them that setbacks are not obstacles but stepping stones to success.
Finally, assure our daughters that their mother’s love is eternal. It is a constant source of strength and support that will never diminish or falter.